We originally had our post w/wordpress, but have found this site to be much easier. We are healing after the loss of our baby. We would have been 12 weeks today. Ali has taken this sooo hard. I feel helpless in not knowing what she needs from me right now. We both grieve so differently. I like to be surrounded by the people I love, she on the other hand likes to crawl up and hide. Is it ok that we grieve differently? How can we both grieve and not feel like we're hurting the other one's feelings? Just the thought of getting back on the ttc train seems exhausting. It took one full year for us to finally conceive. The bright side...at least we know we can get pregnant.
I must say....Life is good...God is good...friends and family are good!
To all our friends who were on this journey and are feeling this loss too, we thank you for your prayers, support, and unconditional love. Thank you to the blogs we love to read....who remind us everyday of why it is all worth the wait...even through tragedy.
~La
2 comments:
That is a HUGE bright side.
It took me 6 years to get pregnant. I then miscarried at
11 1/2 weeks. It took 2 insems, but after 2 I created my beautiful little girl.
The road seems long, lonely, rough. The end seems hard and unreachable. You will be pregnant again soon and when you are holding your beautiful baby...you like those of us that have gone before you will say. TOTALLY WORTH IT !
La-Thanks for the comments over on our blog. Welcome to blogland!
We know all too well the pain you have suffered. Being there ourselves, we know that words can only do so much so I will just say you're in our thoughts and prayers and WE...all of us...will get thru this and someday be blessed with the patter of little feet. It just take some of us a little long to get there. And like KJ said, that IS a HUGE bright side....I have to keep reminding myself of that.
Thoughts, prayers and blessings to you both.
Kim & M
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